I recently read something that has lodged itself deeply into my brain. “Forgive them even if they’re not sorry.” Um, what? Nowhere in my personal revenge fantasies has someone ever not been deeply sorry. By the time I was done with them, they were beyond sorry. They were ruined. Whether I threw a drink in their face […]

Forty-somethings are twenty-somethings with money. We’re also better in bed, more relaxed and have more or less stopped caring what other people think. As much, anyway. This is the era to re-invent but also call forth all of our ideals from our twenties, even the crazy ones. My thirties were about trying to fit in. […]